10 Habits of Highly Respected People

In a world where character and integrity becomes rarer when we find someone who embodies such scarce elements we admire and respect them. What is scarce is revered and valued. That is why highly respected people are successful in maintaining certain values and inspiring others around them. However it is important to know that like a monumental structure these habits that shape highly respected people are not cultivated overnight but with consistency and perseverance. Here are 10 habits of highly respected people.

1. They are accessible
They are reachable, approachable and are willing to connect. They do not build gigantic walls around themselves rather they build bridges to connect with others and to forge relationships.

2. They are grateful
They are not too caught up in their lives or their activities to say thank you or send an appreciative note. Highly respected are grateful to the efforts or good gestures of others. They are not caught up in their world or in their personal image not to brighten another person’s day by saying “thank you.”

3. They are passionate
They follow their hearts rather than the opinion of others. They are excited about what they do not to fall for the misconceptions or conventional opinions of the people around them. Rather than being victims of the world around them, they are passionate enough to inspire and influence the passions and creativity of others.

4. They are courteous
They understand that they do not need to ask or request for respect. They understand that they have to earn it. Thus they reach out to everyone they can with a respectful approach. They do not single anyone out or offer preferential treatment to some over others. Rather they are willing to acknowledge everyone they meet.

5. They are tactical when they respond to criticism
They don’t respond impulsively or rashly to every comment or criticism fired at them. They understand that to attain the higher ground they do not have take the bait and go toe-to-toe with everyone who throws a punch at them. Thus they are tactful at how they respond to criticism or the naysayers, sometimes not even responding at all could show how matured they are.

6. They practice what they preach
They do not say one thing or do another. They make sure their lives reflect what they preach and inspire others through their actions rather than words. They know that talk is cheap and rather than crumble to one scandalous act or another they preserve their reputation and character.

7. They are consistent
They do not just win and earn their respect through a singular act. Rather they keep on striving to get better. They are consistent and continue to strive to meet higher goals. Whether it is in entering a new field or challenging themselves to a different endeavor within their field, they make sure they push themselves to greater heights.

8. They are willing to make sacrifices
They are not bigger than themselves or have a magnified image of who they are. They want to do something positive to their environment and this may mean wearing the hat of responsibility and taking charge when every other person steps back. Thus they are courageous and never act cowardly.

9. They focus on solutions rather than problems
They are constantly in search for answers on how to better themselves and those who are around. Rather than pointing fingers or playing the victim, they know that it is up to them to make their environment better.

10. They are disciplined

When they have to take a particular channel; they also understand that committing themselves to anything means that they have to wait for rewards. They wouldn’t want to take illegal or shorter routes to their destination. Rather they would go for the one that doesn’t tolerate mediocrity but excellence.
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5 Ways To Avoid Being Robbed In Lagos This Xmas

This Coming Xmas in Lagos could be rough because of the current Country problems, Most Especially criminal activities. There are some who will be looking to make some
quick cash by robbing and stealing from others.
On Lagos roads it is vital to remember this age old injunction ‘Shine Your Eye’, this is because like every major city in the world, mingling with honest people going about their everyday businesses are thieves and pickpockets ready to rid you of your possessions and valuables.
For this reason you need to be extra vigilant and careful so that you do not fall prey to their schemes.
To a great extent, the average Lagosian already knows all or some of these schemes, however, for the people who are new to Lagos, the following tips are vital to surviving fast thieving hands.
The following are 5 tips you might find useful in ensuring that these tricksters do not get the better of you.

Keep Your Hand On Your Valuables Always

For most people going about their daily life, their wallets contain their valuables, and this is usually in their pockets or for the ladies in their handbags. While walking especially in crowded spaces, always keep your hand firmly in your pocket and on your handbag. Not too obviously, to avoid drawing undue attention to yourself.

Avoid Crowded Bus Stops And Junctions
This might seem like an impossible task as Lagos is crowded in most places and at most times. However, try as much as possible to avoid crowded spaces. Bus stops are prime hunting grounds for pickpockets, so keep your eyes open around you in such places. Watch out for people pressing too close to you, even if they look like they have legitimate reasons for doing so.

Stay Vigilant If You Must Rush To Bard A Bus
The madness of Lagos living has made it compulsory that at least once in a while you might have to run and struggle with others to board a bus, especially at rush hours. Most thieves wait for such opportunities; they join the surging crowd and pick off valuables. So while it is recommended that you avoid joining the mad rush, if you must, ensure that you are vigilant and hold on tight to your valuables.

Do Not Embrace Strangers Or Allow Them Touch You
Individualistic lifestyles are a trademark of huge commercial centers. So it is possible that you run into a distant relative while going about your daily business, however a word of caution is in order. Unless you do really recognize the person in question, do not accept hugs or allow them touch you. Pretending to be a relative and picking the pockets of people during hugs and handshakes is one of the ingenious means the thieves have developed.

Avoid Walking Between Parked Vehicles
The narrow spaces between parked vehicles might seem like a tempting alternative to the main road, either as a short cut or to relieve one’s self, however it is also a danger. Thieves lurk in these hidden corners and have been known to surprise unsuspecting people with knives and guns, before relieving them of their valuables.

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